Day 15 of 90 Love it when things come together.

I wrote about toxic relationships the other day, and how they make life stressful. I told you of my friend and the relationship he refuses to escape, even though he agrees it’s slowly killing him. Hopefully he’ll learn the lesson soon, and move on to bigger and better things. If not, he’ll still be my friend, because it’s the flaws and differences that make this world the great place it is.

I have a different friend that’s choosing to escape from their torment, rather than dive further into it.

It’s really indescribable, watching them start to thrive in a more supportive environment.

From sleepless nights fretting about their partner, and who they might be spending time with, to sleeping like a baby. The difference is night and day in the person’s attitude. They’re full of life, where before they would constantly be stressed. They settle into seats and relax, instead of always being on edge. They even asked me if they should write a book. I said no, she should dictate it. She’s a slow typer.

I love watching people thrive in the right environment, it’s like watching a karmic garden grow right before your very eyes. Watching their fears and anxieties melt away as they realize they don’t have to put up with anything they don’t want to.

It’s a matter of perspective though. One person’s hell is another’s nirvana. Just remember nature has a funny sense of humor.

Cruisin’ through books cause books make life worth living with Aly 2/22/2016 part 4

Turn by David Podlipny

This was a short book but it was not bad at all.  I would’ve liked a little more information about the world the book is in and maybe some more background.  But I enjoyed the story and I thought Turn was a interesting character.  * I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review*  3/5

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The Death of Pat Bannon by Kirk Bailey

This book was a fun and unique read.  I enjoyed the author style of writing.  It was odd but different and unique.  The book did get my thinking is some places and even made me laugh a few times.  * I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review*   4/5

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Sword of Deaths by Christopher Mannino

This book was just as good, if not better, than the first book in this series.  I love this series so far.  I don’t get to read many books about the grim reaper so I try as many as I can find.  I love all the characters in the book.  The character of Susan has evolved in this next book in the series and I love to see that one great characters.  This has it all for me, danger, adventure and so much more.  I will keep my eyes open for the next book in the series.  * I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review*  5/5

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Between Two Fires by Toni Williams

A good murder mystery for anyone who like this genre to try.  I enjoyed the book. I will some day myself get to visit St. Lucia.  The book takes place on a island that is made up off St. Lucia.  I think the book had some good characters and the story line was interesting for me.  I love a good murder mystery.  * I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review*  4/5

Day 14 of 90 Never know when you’ll be inspired

I was looking for a good writing book to read, because I of course want to improve my skills as a writer, and I came accross a title that made me think. Now, I know nothing about this book, but I did consider purchasing it. The title was 8 minute writing. I assume from the title it talks about writing in 8 minute bursts, and getting the story out. I am a huge fan of this approach, especially when you have a complicated and busy life.

However, I don’t think that approach would work for me. I tend to vomit upon the page, figuring I can edit the rest out, and it’s generally worked so far. But my stretches are much more than 8 minutes. I typically spend a good hour typing, at least when I’m in the zone.

Communicating your story should ultimately be a fun endeavor. If you don’t think you’re going to enjoy writing, then you’re not. At least, that’s the way it was for me. It wasn’t until I tried to look at it as fun that it became fun.

If you’re willing to approach it with an open mind and look forward to the work, you are more than likely going to enjoy yourself. Perspective completely shapes the world around us, and we all have our own version of it. Be willing to listen to the world around you. Open your mind, change your outlook and approach, and you’ll see just how amazing life can be.

Feel free to leave me comments with your favorite writing books (Preferably not your own).