In the greater scope of life, we have very little control. There are a lot of everyday scenarios that are completely beyond our ability to affect. You can decide what someone else eats for breakfast, but you can’t decide how much they like that food.
And yet we live in a society where too many people are worried about the actions of others. We try to control others, put them into nice little boxes with labels that are all wrong.
I don’t understand why. Everyone the world over has led a different life than you. They’ve made choices that changed the course of their lives, and who are we to judge their choices?
None of us have all the answers, and sometimes there’s more than one solution. Don’t make the mistake of believing yours is the only proper way. Especially if you live in a glass house. Karma has a crazy sense of humor.
Our world is ever changing, and there’s nothing you or I can do to stop it.
Why would you want to? Why would you want to halt the evolution of our species.
I say embrace the change. Accept that it’s coming. Accept that it’s not directly under your control, and adapt.
Eventually we as a species need to get past controlling each other, and learn to just be. It’s the only way we’re ever going to stop fighting.